Just about everyone will agree: Divorce is a painful and life-changing process. While people cope in different ways, a lot of people find comfort in packing up their things and physically moving to a different area. In fact, it’s one of the most popular reasons to relocate, accounting for a large portion of the 43 million Americans who move each and every year. For the best possible experience, keep these things in mind when moving during or after a divorce.
Dot Your Is and Cross Your Ts
While it may be tempting to just pick up everything and go, life doesn’t really work that way. In the end, moving overnight may cause more stress and exacerbate problems. If you are moving long distance, go on interviews. Secure a new job first. Research the best moving companies. Hire movers who are accustomed to moving houses long-distance. Make sure that you don’t have to attend court or divorce proceedings in-person, or (at the very least) be prepared to make a trip or several trips back. If you have children, you may have to stay within a set distance. You may be able to work out a legal agreement with your ex-spouse and/or a lawyer to move longer distances with your children. Obviously, it is always best to make certain you have all of this figured out before you set a concrete moving date.
Divorce can take a huge emotion toll. It can consume your thoughts, and it can — especially if you are not careful — continually drag you down. Embrace the moving process. Look up moving organization tips, and tips for packing and moving. The kitchen has the most items, so most people start there, for example. Meticulously packing up your things can help take your mind off things. Plus, moving out of the house you shared with your ex can be cathartic and healthy. Different surroundings can easily help you feel like you are starting something new, and it’s often best to leave the baggage and hurt behind.
Don’t get stuck in the past. While career is still the top reason to relocate, divorce isn’t far behind. Take care of all legal matters before setting a final move date, and embrace the moving process. Pack, organize, hire movers — and get caught up in doing it.
What is one of the most common — yet unexpected — questions to ask a moving company? Believe it or not, Americans ask a fair share of local movers whether it is possible and/or advisable to move during the holidays. The answer is yes. You can move during the holidays, and — with some careful planning and dedication — it doesn’t have to put a damper on your holidays, either. Here are some tips for packing and moving during the holiday season.
Recreate The Joy Of The Season Anywhere
Of all Americans ages 18 to 29, at least two-thirds have moved in the last five years, and 40% of Americans anticipate a move in the next five years. If moving happens to coincide with the holidays, don’t let that bring down your holiday spirit. Even if it is not practical to keep holiday decorations easily accessible, it is relatively simple to play your favorite Christmas music or watch your favorite Christmas movie from just about anywhere. Thanks to the internet, you can rent or purchase just about any movie at any time!
Pack And Move Around Family Gatherings And Other Festivities
The very last thing you want is to have to turn down a holiday party because “I have to pack that night.” Pack ahead whenever possible, and make a list of questions to ask a moving company about the specifics and logistics of moving during the holidays. When exactly will you be moving? What if there is snow? What are their busiest and least busy times?
Have A Backup Plan
Sometimes you just have to move — and ASAP. Relocating for a job, for example, can come up fairly quickly and unexpectedly, and it usually comes with a concrete deadline, too. If it comes to it, have a plan b (or a plan c or d). In other words, if you really cannot find suitable housing during the holidays — consider other, temporary options, like short-term rentals, corporate housing, and more.
Don’t let moving with the holidays get you down. Carefully plan, keep things festive, and have a backup plan — just in case.
23 Oct 2014
Approximately 43 million Americans relocate every single year, one-third of all American adults who rent move at least once every 12 months, and another 40% of U.S. men and women anticipate having to move within the next five years. In other words, Americans move a lot. They know all of the standard questions to ask a moving company. (How much will the move cost? What is the best day to move?) There are some things, however, that frequent movers may not know — and that includes how to move with pets. Here are some tips to make moving with pets simple and relatively stress-free.
Keep Your Pet Out Of The Way (For His Or Her Own Good!)
It may sound cruel to keep your pet pent up — even if it’s just for a couple of hours. It’s not. In all likelihood, local movers will be in and out of your house on moving day. Keeping your dog or cat in a reasonably sized room, such as the bathroom, with some food and water will keep him or her out of the way — and it will provide pets with a safe, quiet space away from strangers moving heavy boxes and furniture.
When It Comes To Car Travel, Plan Ahead
For dogs and cats alike, a well-ventilated and secure crate or carrier is essential when driving (especially when it comes to long distances!). Dogs and cats will wander, and your safety and the safety of your passengers (including your pet!) depends on keeping pets from becoming a major distraction.
Help Your Cat Or Dog Adjust As Soon As Possible
“Pets may be frightened and confused in new surroundings,” Realtor Magazine warns. “Upon your arrival at your new home, immediately set out all the familiar and necessary things your pet will need: food, water, medications, bed, litter box, toys, etc.” Familiar items with familiar scents will help put your pet at ease.
Stress-free moving depends on keeping pets happy and healthy. Make things easier for pets and local movers by keeping pets out of the way and packing familiar items to set up in your new home.
22 Sep 2014
American renters and homeowners get really intimidated by the prospect of lower temperatures and snow — and these worries may actually cost them a great deal of money, especially if they are moving. If you are moving within your state or long-distance, braving the cold this winter or fall can have a lot of perks. Here are just a few.
Local Movers Offer Lower Rates During The Off-Seasons
Let’s start with the most expensive months to move. June and July are the very worst months to move, no matter where you live. If you live in a college town, near a college town, or you are moving into an area with a college or university, also expect moving companies to be really busy in late August and early September and again in mid to late May.
Technically, any other month is considered the off-season. Rates will be lowest, however, from late September through February or March — because people are trying to avoid the snow.
It’s Actually Easier On The Moving Company
Driving to your new home on icy roads may seem less than ideal to you, but it is actually an appealing prospect for most local movers. Why? They are the ones moving your king size bed upstairs, and they are the ones walking back and forth to the truck while unloading all of your heavy things. Movers are much less likely to break a sweat in the cool air, and they much less likely to have to stop to take a breather, even if it is just for a few minutes.
The Fall And Winter Moving Seasons Are More Flexible
Every year, one-third of American renters move. In total, approximately 43 million Americans move each and every year, and 40% of Americans are “likely” to move within the next five years. Let’s face it. Sometimes things come up. Apartments or new houses aren’t ready quite as soon as you were expecting, new jobs ask you to start earlier, and the list goes on. Fall and winter are the best time for things not to go as expected. Moving companies boast greater availability during these times, and they are more likely to be able to work with you, should something come up.
It’s not always possible to dictate exactly when we will move, but — if it is — fall and winter will save you money, time, and unnecessary frustrations.
10 Sep 2014
With the housing market slowly but surely on the mend, Americans are even more likely to relocate — and that’s saying something. Just how common is it to pack up your things and move? On average, 43 million Americans relocate in any given year. About 35.6% of young adults ages 20 to 24 moved in 2013, and 30.7% U.S. men and women ages 25 to 29 packed up and moved, also in the last 12 months or so.
The prospect of packing your entire home into boxes and making arrangements to get those boxes into your new home can be daunting. Here are a few moving day tips to make the whole thing a little less intimidating.
Know What You Are — And What You Aren’t — Willing To Do/strong>
It’s moving day. Everything is neatly packed into the truck, thanks to the help of local movers. You’re all set, except there is one problem. When you rented the truck online (or maybe over the phone), you didn’t realize it would be quite that big. The most you’ve ever done is driven your uncle’s pickup truck once, and you just aren’t comfortable maneuvering what basically amounts to a semi (plus, those huge blind spots!).
Believe it or not, a lot of people make this mistake. You can rent a truck to drive or you can pay moving companies to take care of loading and driving for you. Carefully note how much you’ll be moving, what size truck you’ll need, and whether or not you’ll be confident driving it (especially if it’s a long distance).
Don’t Pay For Boxes
Good news! You can easily pick up some entirely free boxes from your local liquor store. (Just ask!) If you call grocery stores and retailers, they may also be able to hook you up, with some notice. Just remember: free boxes are great, but you have to be careful. One of the best packing and moving day tips is to carefully inspect and reinforce any boxes as necessary. Double-tape may be a slight pain down the road, but it beats bottomed-out boxes and broken dishes.
Forty percent of Americans expect to move in the next five years. Make moving day a breeze with realistic expectations and estimates (know all of the specifics about your movers and the truck!), and forgo the expense of paying for boxes — but be prepared to reinforce them!
The big day is finally here. Your eyes are welling up. Maybe somewhere, in the far corner of your mind, you’re imagining an empty room and mentally arranging your new home gym. In any case, it’s finally time to move your child into college for the very first time. It may not seem like rocket science, but it’s definitely a milestone that you do not want to be entirely unprepared for, either. Here are some ways to make move-in day easier for you — and for your student.
If Possible, Steer Clear Of The Moving Day Chaos
Some colleges only have one or two move-in days for freshmen, and getting caught up in the hundreds or thousands of students moving in may be more or less inevitable. That’s not always the case, however. Carefully communicate with your child’s college to find out when exactly they can move in. If it’s an option, schedule your move-in day Monday through Thursday, when it is least likely to be busy.
Whether you choose a weekday move-in or you’re pretty much confined to the weekend, make sure your child communicates with his or her roommate, too. You don’t want to end up trying to carry in boxes and other large items at the exact same moment your daughter’s roommate is rearranging her furniture and there’s a couch in the dead-center of the room.
Communicate For The Best And Least Expensive Move
Local movers are going to be pretty busy at this time of year. Don’t call them up at the very last minute, and — if you do — don’t have your eyes set on a particular truck size. Decide on the exact level of involvement you expect from a moving company. Moving companies will help pack, load the truck, and drive — but this all comes at an expense. At this time of year, it may be best to rent a truck and possibly local movers to load it. Take care of driving on your own.
Americans ages 18 to 29 are among the most likely to move (two-thirds have moved in the last six years!), and there’s a good reason — college. Roughly 35.6% of movers are 20 to 24 years old, followed closely by the next age bracket, 25 to 29, with 30.7%. Keep your first college move-in day (or your second or third!) a breeze by avoiding the crowds and calling local movers well in advance.