Relocating After Divorce: Two Important Things To Consider
Just about everyone will agree: Divorce is a painful and life-changing process. While people cope in different ways, a lot of people find comfort in packing up their things and physically moving to a different area. In fact, it’s one of the most popular reasons to relocate, accounting for a large portion of the 43 million Americans who move each and every year. For the best possible experience, keep these things in mind when moving during or after a divorce.
Dot Your Is and Cross Your Ts
While it may be tempting to just pick up everything and go, life doesn’t really work that way. In the end, moving overnight may cause more stress and exacerbate problems. If you are moving long distance, go on interviews. Secure a new job first. Research the best moving companies. Hire movers who are accustomed to moving houses long-distance. Make sure that you don’t have to attend court or divorce proceedings in-person, or (at the very least) be prepared to make a trip or several trips back. If you have children, you may have to stay within a set distance. You may be able to work out a legal agreement with your ex-spouse and/or a lawyer to move longer distances with your children. Obviously, it is always best to make certain you have all of this figured out before you set a concrete moving date.
Divorce can take a huge emotion toll. It can consume your thoughts, and it can — especially if you are not careful — continually drag you down. Embrace the moving process. Look up moving organization tips, and tips for packing and moving. The kitchen has the most items, so most people start there, for example. Meticulously packing up your things can help take your mind off things. Plus, moving out of the house you shared with your ex can be cathartic and healthy. Different surroundings can easily help you feel like you are starting something new, and it’s often best to leave the baggage and hurt behind.
Don’t get stuck in the past. While career is still the top reason to relocate, divorce isn’t far behind. Take care of all legal matters before setting a final move date, and embrace the moving process. Pack, organize, hire movers — and get caught up in doing it.